Housekeeping Matters

A girlfriend asked me yesterday if I had spoken to Mr. ATL. I remembered speaking (or listening really) to him the previous Sunday and we haven't spoken since.....she asked how come. Should I be calling him more? Why? We have a useful agreement I think, I call when I feel like and so does he.

Mr. ATL is fine, he wants a girl in JA who he can fuck when he visits and I am prepared to be just that......we really don't need to talk too much to sort that out.....the benefits to me are sexual (eventually) and material, and I have no difficulty with that. He knows he cannot call and ask me where I am, have been or will be unless he is in the island or has paid my way to Atlanta and I think he is fine with that.

We are good.....I like this construct, I know what my boundaries are, I expect no surprises, like jealousy, bad vibes etc. and it works. I said it before there's not too much of a game to it, its clear......and I have always advocated clarity being given in these matters.....all I need now is to have a similar construct in JA and I would be good to gone. Sometimes you have to take a break from quasi-monogamy and just be the bitch you are.