Taking Stock

They say time alone will tell you what you need to know, so relax and let time pass and all things will be revealed.

I must admit to being in a bad place right now...I was locked in a 2 day Retreat last week and didn't cope too well, I thought, with the Player/Boss situation. I know we have moved on but its still a little disconcerting to watch.....eventually I said "frig it" and I think it went well after that. It made me wonder though about the first time I will see Boogie and his new love. If the Player thing hurts then the Boogie thing will break me in two and I'm not sure "frig it" will be a sufficient fix. I know I will deal like a petulant child initially but eventually I will accept the reality I only pray it will be with minimal destructive actions on my part. I hate to lose....even what I don't want.
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On another note, Mr ATL is here and we had some fun on Tuesday night, in fact I think my stale half drunken state may have contributed to my negative reaction to the "player/boss" scenario at the Retreat. Our hook up was good.....I took along a friend and she took along a friend and he called in another friend so I was protected, I thought, from any foolishness that may have crossed his or my mind (given my hard-up state right now). When we spoke in the early evening I tried to nip his sweet talk in the bud before he started to develop ideas about who he could do on his vacation. I was truthful, I told him that as my Bredda's friend he automatically would be my bredren..... and bredrens don't fuck.

He was slick though, he agreed whole heatedly and when we met up for drinks it flowed well until that 4th bottle of beer and my unchained admiration of his muscular body took over....his muscles were even bigger now...hmmm, yummy. I found myself in conversation rubbing his wash board stomach, and stroking those strong thighs....eventually he asked me to dance and that was the beginning of the mistake. Two more drinks later, his tongue was in my mouth and we were almost joined at the pelvis......dancing is cool. Thankfully, there's only so much you can do with no condom, a conscience and your clothes on. It was nice though.....it felt good being held and caressed....he leaves on Friday so it should be fine, his calls and messages are becoming just a little annoying though (this after I told him on the night I would be in whole day sessions over the following 2 days) he needs to stop that. Anyway, I will have to see him before he leaves so that I can pass on some goodies fi mi Bredda.....I hope that the exchange will be incident free.